I like my boyfriend to put me in submission holds befoer we have sex is it odd of me?

the moves i like best are the camel clutch really is a lot of fun you should try this one on your other half i love it the ankle lock hurts but in a good way . And i also like being put in the Boston crab and being told how bad a girl i am(my bf only dose this when i say i wont sleep with him if he do sent do it to me ) anyone else feel the same way